Saturday, 4 April 2009

Always Learning, Always Getting Better

I met Sean, Yew Jin, Javier and Deon at Pepperoni, Greenwoods for lunch. We arrived about an hour before opening, but the eventual pizza we ordered was incredible value for money, and we adjourned to Estivo for gelato thereafter. Sean and I went to town for a spot of shopping and finally tea at Din Tai Fung, Wisma Atria.

While chatting, I said that I cannot live with a sense of entitlement that as of recent times been a subject I've witnessed. Just because one has unblemished grades does not mean a University owes you a place; just because you have gone through shit in command school does not accord you automatic respect from those around you. As different as both are, they must be earned.

I have received more disappointing news in the last 5 months than in any other period of my life, and I recognize that these, as with many other things both good and bad, will become memories of varying intensities with the passage of time. I have also learnt that finding content in these times amplifies joy, because the honest truth is this: that everyone I know, myself included, has so so much to look back on, look at and look forward to with a smile.